I am in my 60s now, divorced, with two grown-up kids. I also have end-stage can:cer.
My daughter and I are estranged, and haven’t spoken in 15 years.
I don’t blame her, I had an a:ffair and broke the family. Out of the blue, I get a call. It was my daughter, crying and pleading
Out of the blue, I get a call.
It was my daughter, crying and pleading — her voice shaking like I’d never heard before.
“Dad… please. I don’t want it to end like this.”
For a moment, I couldn’t breathe. Her voice brought back a lifetime of memories I had tried to bury — birthdays missed, letters never sent, the silence that grew heavier with every passing year. I had told myself I didn’t deserve her forgiveness. And maybe I still didn’t.
“I heard… about your diagnosis,” she whispered. “And I don’t care about the past anymore. I just… I want my dad back, even if it’s just for a little while.”
Tears filled my eyes.
“I thought you’d never speak to me again,” I managed.
“I didn’t plan to,” she admitted. “But then I looked at my own kids and thought… what if this were us?”
There was a long pause.
“I don’t know how to fix everything,” I said quietly.
“You don’t have to fix it,” she replied. “Just… let me come. Let me sit with you. Talk. Be there.”
Two days later, she walked into my hospital room, older and stronger than the girl I remembered, but with the same fire in her eyes.
We sat in silence at first — just holding hands, tears falling freely. And then we talked. For hours. About everything.
Forgiveness didn’t come all at once. But it began that day.
And as my time grew shorter, something unexpected began to grow in its place: peace.
She was there when I took my final breath — not as a bitter daughter, but as a woman who chose grace over grief.
And I left this world with her hand in mine — knowing that love, even broken and battered, could still find its way back. 💔