25 years ago I married a man with 3 kids. He di:ed a year later.
I raised them alone. Now I’m 63, sick and my kids barely visit me.
I found out with sh0ck that they already picked a cemetery plot and a headstone for me, hoping I would di:e soon.
But there’s something they didn’t know. I actually
…I actually changed my will months ago.
When I first got sick, I assumed my kids would be by my side. After all, I gave them everything — love, guidance, a roof over their heads. I sacrificed my youth, my career, my entire life to raise them when their own mother had walked away.
But after the diagnosis, they disappeared. Calls went unanswered. Visits stopped. And then, the final blow — I overheard them talking, joking even, about my “prepaid exit.” That’s when I learned about the cemetery plot, the headstone, and how they were already discussing selling the house.
They thought I wouldn’t last the year. They thought I was just an old burden waiting to be buried.
But what they didn’t know was that six months ago, I met Mara, a kind young nurse who treated me not like a patient, but like a person. She came over on her days off. She brought groceries. She listened. She cared.
So I rewrote my will. Everything — the house, my savings, the antique collection they were so eager to appraise — now belongs to Mara.
When my children came by yesterday for the first time in months — likely expecting to say their final goodbyes — I handed them a letter.
It read:
“You buried me before I was gone. You planned my end without showing up for my life. But I’m still here. And I’ve chosen to give my legacy to someone who showed up with love, not entitlement. Goodbye.”
Their faces turned pale. For the first time, they were speechless.
And for the first time in years, I felt truly at peace.